Most of us have experienced the loss of a pet at one time or another. Healing from a death is not easy, whether it is a pet or a human. We still feel the same emotions, the same loss, the same grief.
I was reminded of this yesterday, when my son’s cat died. She had been sick, but we did not realize that it was life threatening. The vet had
not been able to figure out exactly what was wrong, and we were treating her symptoms as best we could. Her breathing became very labored, so I suggested that he take her to the vet. I did not pick up that she was dying. Her eyes were clear and she seemed ok, just having a little difficulty. Shortly after they arrived at the vet, she stopped breathing.
Being psychic, I always feel I should know when things like that are going to happen. I have to remind myself that sometimes we are not supposed to know. Sometimes our loved one does not want us to know, and does not want us there when it happens. My daughter, Samantha, did not want me there when she died, but something woke me up when it was happening.
Of course, my son has gone through the normal emotions we go through when we experience a death – guilt, grief, sadness, etc. He questioned what he had done wrong, what he could have done differently, why she died so young. I remember all the ‘What if …’ questions I asked after losing Samantha.
Reality is that people, and animals, die when it is their time. That timing is between their soul and the Creator. We cannot change it, we cannot hasten it, we cannot delay it. It happens exactly when and how it is supposed to.
Many people will tell us to just get over it. After all, it was only an animal.
We can love an animal every bit as deeply as we can a human. We can grieve for a pet just as deeply as a human family member.
I have lost many, many pets through my life. I have always been an animal lover and had many pets at one time. The grief I felt when my Great Dane died about 5 years ago, was the deepest I have ever felt when I lost an animal. I grieved for her deeply for 3 years, until she returned to me as my Shih Tzu, Teddy. Then, the grief went away.
When we do lose an animal, there is a very good chance that it will return to us in one form or another. They have just as strong a connection to us as we do to them. My precious Gizmo has been with me through 4 incarnations in this lifetime. He is beginning to show his age, and I dread losing him again.
I did some healing with my son to help him release his emotions of guilt and grief, which did help him.
When Samantha died, the Energetic Clearing Technique helped me to heal, survive and thrive.
Energetic Clearing Technique For Loss of a Pet
“I ask my Spirit, to go throughout time, through my ancestry, through my soul’s lineage, through my soul contracts, through all of my aspects and locate all causes, signs, side effects, predispositions to and damage from all the ways and all the reasons me or any of my aspects feel or have ever felt sadness over the loss of my pet, grief, loss, helplessness. All the ways I am blaming myself. All the ways I feel I could have done something differently, and any other feeling, thought or emotion.
Take my Higher Self and every aspect of my being to the very first incident that caused this issue to start. Analyze every aspect of it and heal it perfectly, permanently and completely.
Come throughout time, through my ancestry, through my soul’s lineage, through my soul contracts, through all of my aspects, healing each incident based upon the foundation of the first, until I am at the present filled with light, love, peace and truth. I am calm. I am at peace. I am accepting. I let go.
Know that every negative thought or inappropriate behavior based on this issue quickly disappears. Take all the time you need Spirit, but quicken time and do the job NOW.
Thank you, Spirit.”